ReCouple: A 16-Week Relationship Reset

You're Not Out of Love. You're Out of Sync.

Shift the pattern. Speak each other's language. Build the partnership you both deserve.

The Problem

You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. You’ve had the talks. Maybe even tried couples therapy.
But the distance still grows. The same arguments keep looping. The spark flickers .And now? You feel more like roommates than partners.
You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in a pattern you haven’t learned how to shift… yet.

Why KonnectFully Works

Most couples try to fix the surface — better communication, more quality time, fewer fights.
But surface strategies don’t stick when the deeper wiring is misunderstood.
At KonnectFully, we don’t rush to solutions. We start with what’s underneath.
We help you decode the patterns behind your disconnection — what drives reactions, what shuts things down, and why past efforts haven’t worked… yet.
This isn’t therapy. And it’s not a “fix-it” session. It’s a structured, personalized process for couples who want to stay - and grow - together.
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A Path Forward for Couples Who Want to Shift

You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in a pattern you haven’t learned to shift… yet.

Before the Shift:

The same arguments on repeat
Misunderstood, unheard, unseen
Fear of conflict or saying the wrong thing
Feeling more like roommates than partners

After the Shift:

A relationship that feels safe and strong again
Tools to talk without triggering each other
Feeling emotionally safe and understood
Navigating hard conversations with clarity
A deeper, more connected partnership

The Program at a Glance

16 Weeks.  4 Phases.  1 Renewed Relationship.

This isn’t just about fixing communication. It’s about reshaping the emotional foundation of your relationship — from the inside out.
Over 16 weeks, you’ll be guided through a proven process that helps you understand yourself more deeply, see your partner with new eyes, and finally shift the patterns that have kept you disconnected.
Each phase is intentionally designed to build on the last — so that by the end, you’re not just talking differently… you’re relating differently. With clarity. With compassion. With connection.

Understand Yourself

Uncover your personal wiring —what drives you, what derails you, and how it plays out in conflict or closeness .

Understand Each Other

See your partner with new eyes.  how your partner thinks, feels, and reacts.  Learn what they actually need to feel safe, seen, and loved — and how to meet them there.

 Change the Pattern

Shift out of cycles that keep pulling you apart — and learn how to stay connected, even in tough moments.

Create a New Path

Walk away with tools, insights, and rituals to sustain what you’ve built — long after the program ends.

What You’ll Walk Away With

Real tools to stop escalating and start understanding
A new lens on your dynamic, so you stop repeating the same loops
Repaired trust and renewed connection
A deeper sense of “we’re in this together”
A plan that actually fits your relationship — not one-size-fits-all advice
More confidence in how you show up and respond in difficult moments
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Is This Right for You?

This program is for couples who are serious about change — and ready for something deeper than advice. If that’s you, we’ll walk through the program details together on your consultation call.

Is This Right for You?

This program is for couples who are serious about change — and ready for something deeper than advice. If that’s you, we’ll walk through the program details together on your consultation call.

Ready for a Better Way Forward?

This is for you if:

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You love your partner, but feel like something’s missing

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You’re tired of repeating the same fights

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You’ve tried other approaches—and nothing’s stuck

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You’re ready to do the work, but you need the right map
  • You love your partner, but feel like something’s missing
  • You’re tired of repeating the same fights
  • You’ve tried other approaches—and nothing’s stuck
  • You’re ready to do the work, but you need the right map

Why This Works When Therapy Didn’t

Most couples don’t need more surface-level advice. They need a framework that helps them understand — and shift — the patterns driving disconnection.
We use the Enneagram as a lens — not to label, but to reveal the why behind your reactions and disconnection. When you understand each other at that level, everything starts to shift. This is the work that sticks.

Meet Your Coach

Hi, I’m Todd Payne. I’ve spent over 25 years working with couples — but I wasn’t always great at relationships. I learned the hard way — through failure, reflection, and eventually, a system that helped it all make sense. What I teach is what saved my own marriage. It’s helped hundreds of couples rediscover what makes them strong. And if you’re ready, it can do the same for you.
I’ve spent years sitting with couples who deeply love each other… but still end up in the same frustrating patterns.It’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they’re speaking different emotional languages — and they’ve never been taught how to translate.
That’s why I designed this program. To help people stop reacting on autopilot and start relating with clarity, compassion, and confidence. To break out of the old cycles — and build something stronger in their place. I use the Enneagram as a framework, but it’s not about putting people in boxes.
It’s about giving you a mirror — so you can see what’s really driving your patterns, and how to meet your partner with more empathy and understanding.’ve worked with therapists, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving couples who’ve tried all the books, workshops, and even therapy — but still felt stuck.
Because most advice is focused on changing the other person. But the real shift starts with understanding yourself — your wiring, your blind spots, and how they show up in moments of conflict and closeness.
This work isn’t about surface-level fixes. It’s about deep emotional growth that lasts — because it changes how you see yourself, and how you show up in the relationship.
If you're ready to do that work, I’d love to walk alongside you.
Todd Payne

Meet Your Coach

Hi, I’m Todd Payne. I’ve spent over 25 years working with couples — but I wasn’t always great at relationships. I learned the hard way — through failure, reflection, and eventually, a system that helped it all make sense. What I teach is what saved my own marriage. It’s helped hundreds of couples rediscover what makes them strong. And if you’re ready, it can do the same for you.
I’ve spent years sitting with couples who deeply love each other… but still end up in the same frustrating patterns.It’s not because they don’t care. It’s because they’re speaking different emotional languages — and they’ve never been taught how to translate.
I’ve worked with therapists, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving couples who’ve tried all the books, workshops, and even therapy — but still felt stuck. Because most advice is focused on changing the other person. But the real shift starts with understanding yourself — your wiring, your blind spots, and how they show up in moments of conflict and closeness.
That’s why I designed this program. To help people stop reacting on autopilot and start relating with clarity, compassion, and confidence. To break out of the old cycles — and build something stronger in their place. I use the Enneagram as a framework, but it’s not about putting people in boxes. It’s about giving you a mirror — so you can see what’s really driving your patterns, and how to meet your partner with more empathy and understanding.
This work isn’t about surface-level fixes. It’s about deep emotional growth that lasts — because it changes how you see yourself, and how you show up in the relationship.
If you're ready to do that work, I’d love to walk alongside you.
Todd Payne
Client

Meet Your Coach

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"Todd's approach gives actual tools and solutions and our communication is opening up again. We can take what we’ve learned and use it for the rest of our lives. And that's a huge difference from typical counseling programs"

Wendy S.
Client
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From Soulmates to Roommates—and Back Again

Problem

After 22 years together, Wendy and John S. felt more like business partners than life partners. Focused on daily tasks and parenting, they felt disconnected. Past marriage counseling kept things civil but didn’t close the distance.

Path

In Todd’s 16-Week Recouple program, they discovered each other’s personality styles which gave them empathy for each other’s way of being. They started spending meaningful time together and through weekly check-ins, rebuilding trust and deepening their connection.

Result

Wendy and John now feel joyful being with each other. They built a safe space to tackle big concerns together. Instead of feeling stuck, they find solutions that strengthen their bond.

Hi, I’m Todd Payne. I’ve spent over 25 years working with couples — but I wasn’t always great at relationships. I learned the hard way — through failure, reflection, and eventually, a system that helped it all make sense. What I teach is what saved my own marriage. It’s helped hundreds of couples rediscover what makes them strong. And if you’re ready, it can do the same for you.

Todd Payne
Client

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes this program different from traditional couple’s therapy?

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We go beyond just addressing communication problems. Our program uniquely integrates the Enneagram to deeply explore underlying psychological dynamics. By including both joint and individual sessions, it fosters personal growth alongside relationship improvement, providing a more comprehensive approach than conventional therapy.

How does the Enneagram help in improving your relationship?

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The Enneagram offers detailed insights into each partner's personality, revealing core patterns of motivations, fears, and behaviors. These insights enhance  empathy, prevent misunderstandings , and directly address the roots of recurring conflicts, paving the way for  deeper connections and more satisfying interactions.

What if only one partner is willing to participate?

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Even if only one partner participates, the program can still be beneficial. Individual growth can positively impact the relationship dynamics and may inspire the other partner to engage once they notice positive changes.

Can we see results if we've been struggling for years?

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Absolutely. Our methods are designed to address deep-rooted issues and restore hope. Our approach has proven effective regardless of the duration of your struggles. By focusing on foundational problems, the program helps couples attain lasting improvements.

What do we need to do to make the most out of this program?

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Active participation and openness to change are crucial. This involves engaging fully in sessions, completing all assigned exercises, and maintaining open communication about your experiences and challenges. Change isn’t always easy, but with active participation, it’s possible.

How is progress tracked throughout the program?

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We use relationship surveys, self-reflection exercises, and regular check-ins to measure your growth, adapting the program to your evolving needs to ensure maximum effectiveness.

Are there any resources available after the program ends?

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Yes, post-program, you'll have access to continued learning materials, follow-up sessions, all designed to help you sustain and build upon the improvements made during the program.

How personalized is the coaching in this program?

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Your relationship is unique. Our coaching is highly personalized, adapted to fit the specific dynamics and growth goals of your relationship. We tailor strategies and exercises to meet your unique needs, ensuring that the program's impact is as effective and relevant as possible.

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